Denying and suppressing your emotions can contribute to a number of health problems.
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Explore our suite of self-care tools and resources to help you better understand CONTRIBUTED BY Health Promotion BoardThe importance of managing emotionsAs a youth or young adult, we may be experiencing some changes or transitions in our life, such as advancing studies, searching for job opportunities, stepping into the workforce, or forming new relationships. Navigating these experiences is not easy, especially if we are dealing with them for the first time, and we might encounter some stress and anxiety along the way. However, we have the power to manage our emotions and take steps to look after our well-being, to emerge in a stronger and more resilient position to face life’s challenges and opportunities. What are emotions and why do we feel them?We all experience emotions as a normal and important part of our lives. Emotions are They help us know how to respond appropriately to circumstances we’re in and frame what we make of the situation. It’s normal to feel All emotions have their functions. Experiencing the full range of emotions adds meaning to our lives by helping us understand what is important to us, what our values are, and how to handle challenges. 6 basic emotionsThere is a wide spectrum of emotions. However, there are generally 6 basic emotions, which are universally experienced: Anger An emotional state Disgust A strong emotion that Fear A primal emotion that is Happiness A pleasant emotional Sadness An emotional state Surprise A brief emotional state, Why is it important to understand and manage our emotions?Although emotions are an instinctive and natural thing, it can sometimes
be intense and overwhelming. Managing our emotions helps us make better decisions, big or small. Understanding our emotions allows us to become aware of triggers, so we can gain insights on how to respond in constructive ways. Accepting our emotions allows us to view our thoughts and perspectives objectively, instead of automatically making negative judgements about ourselves and others. Watch this video to see why it’s important to acknowledge and manage our emotions as they arise.How do we manage our emotions?
Be mindful to avoid toxic positivityWhen managing our emotions, we might unknowingly fall into the mindset of toxic positivity, which refers to an Signs of toxic positivityToxic positivity can often be subtle, but learning to recognise the Brushing off problems rather than facing them. Feeling guilty about being sad, angry, or disappointed. Hiding true feelings behind feel-good quotes that seem more socially acceptable. Hiding/Disguising how we really feel or trying to 'get over' painful emotions. Shaming other people when they don’t have a positive attitude. Minimising other people’s feelings because they make us uncomfortable. Risks of toxic positivityRisks of toxic positivityThere are also risks such as:
How do I talk about my emotions?Talking to others about our emotions can also help us explore new perspectives and understand our thinking patterns. That someone can be our partner, a friend, colleague, or workplace mentor. For a start, we can reach out to the person we trust and say, “Can we talk for a minute? I have something to share.” We can then share how we feel and why. We may just find ourselves surprised that someone can help us feel better and assure us that we are not alone. We don’t have to wait for our problems to be big or have a special time to talk about them. It’s good to practise talking about them earlier as it allows us to notice them. We don’t have to talk about every feeling we have but noticing our feelings and saying how we feel and why, is good practice and a healthy way to express them. It is also okay to not know why we are feeling certain emotions. We can still say something like “I feel angry but I don’t know why.” The more we talk about it, the easier it gets. It doesn’t just help us understand ourselves, but also increases the connection that we have with people who matter to us. CONTRIBUTED BY Health Promotion BoardCan suppressed emotions cause illness?Repressed emotions can also factor into mental health conditions, such as stress, anxiety, and depression. These issues often cause physical symptoms, including: muscle tension and pain. nausea and digestive problems.
What happens when we deny our emotions?When the mind thwarts the flow of emotions because they are too overwhelming or too conflicting, it puts stress on the mind and the body, creating psychological distress and symptoms.
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